Man to Man Blog

Trusting Your Gut: The Difference Between Anxiety and Fear

Every man knows the feeling—the sudden pounding of the heart, a swirl of racing thoughts, the body bracing for something unseen. But is it fear? Is it anxiety? And why does it so often feel like our own nervous system is working against us? The truth is, your nervous...

The Silent Crisis: Why Male Loneliness Matters and What We Can Do

By Chuck LeBlanc “I’m fine.” That’s often the answer I hear when I ask men how they’re doing. Not because they’re actually fine, but because saying anything else feels unfamiliar—or unsafe. As a psychotherapist who works closely with men, I’ve come to see male...

The Shadow of Childhood: How Early Experiences Shape Our Coping Mechanisms

Have you ever stopped to wonder why certain patterns keep showing up in your life? Why, in moments of stress or discomfort, you respond the way you do—whether it’s shutting down, lashing out, or escaping into self-criticism? These aren’t random behaviours. They’re...
The Paradox Of People Pleasing

The Paradox Of People Pleasing

  When you start taking responsibility for other people’s happiness, then what you’re saying is essential, other people can’t be happy unless you step in. Part of taking the time to figure out what you’re responsible for is seeing what part of a bad or difficult...

Male Mental Health

Male Mental Health

One of the reasons I decided to focus my practice on male mental health had a lot to do with my own experiences as a male with anxiety and depression. I’ve spoken at length both on my podcast and in various blog posts about my mental health struggles as well as my...

The Trauma of Being Dismissed

The Trauma of Being Dismissed

  Being dismissed in general can be very traumatic. When we feel unheard or unseen it can make us feel small and out of place with the people around us. At the same time, it can be traumatic and painful when we dismiss ourselves. By dismissing ourselves I mean...

Quiet Quitting and the Problem of Burnout

Quiet Quitting and the Problem of Burnout

Quiet Quitting is a new term I am seeing a lot of recently. It does not mean quietly leaving out the back door of your job and never going back. Instead, it means to stop going above and beyond, stop working extra unpaid hours, stop endlessly grinding in a workplace...

Honoring the process of Grief

Honoring the process of Grief

Grief shows up in many different places. It is not only related to death, but also job loss, loneliness, loss in relationships things like that. A lot of us have been isolated for a long time and our social life has disbanded or has transformed in a different way. But...

The Purpose of Grief Therapy

The Purpose of Grief Therapy

After reflecting on her mother’s passing, Simone De Beauvoir one of the most influential and important existential philosophers of all time wrote, “there is no such thing as a natural death: nothing that happens to a man is ever natural, since his presence calls the...

Grieving as a Survivor of Suicide Loss: One Year Later

Grieving as a Survivor of Suicide Loss: One Year Later

This past weekend marked one full year since my dear friend passed away by suicide. In the last years blog post I talked about the storm that raged inside me when I heard the news and how I was overcome with grief, guilt, anger, sadness and a whole host of other...